In response to I Can’t Stay Mad at You.
Do you hold grudges or do you believe in forgive and forget?
Hmmm – that depends. I almost never hold a grudge.
If it was a minor offense and it is the first time, or happens rarely – I forgive and forget.
I even forgive the BIG ones, but I don’t forget. If you hurt me, I will forgive you and hope that we can both learn from the experience. Forgiving the BIG ones does not mean that I will forget. I can’t learn anything from things I forget and neither can you.